إِذا ما تَخَلَّفَ مَن قَد دَعَوتَ
فَدَعهُ وَما اِختارَ مِن أَمرِهِ
If one you have invited fails to come,
leave him to the course he has chosen.
وَلا تَشرَبَن بِاِدِّكارٍ لَهُ
وَلَكِن تَثاءَب عَلى ذِكرِهِ
Do not drink while thinking of him;
instead, yawn at the very mention of him.
Sol 5.6