إِذاif زَجَرتَyou rebuke لَجُوجاa stubborn man زِدتَهyou increase his عُلَقاstubborn attachment
إِذا زَجَرتَ لَجُوجا زِدتَه عُلَقا
ولجَّتِand persisted stubbornly النَّفسُthe soul منهُof him فيin تَمَادِيهاits persistence in excess
ولجَّتِ النَّفسُ منهُ في تَمَادِيها
If you rebuke a stubborn man, you increase his obstinacy,
If you rebuke a stubborn man, you only add fuel to the flames,
and his soul persists stubbornly in its excesses.
And his soul becomes more stubborn in its persistence.
فَعُدso return عليهto him إذاwhen ماemphatic particle نَفسُهhis soul جَمَحتran wild
فَعُد عليه إذا ما نَفسُه جَمَحت
باللينِwith gentleness مِنكَfrom you فإنَّfor indeed اللِّينَgentleness يَثنيِهاturns it back
باللينِ مِنكَ فإنَّ اللِّينَ يَثنيِها
So return to him when his soul runs wild,
So return to him with gentleness when his soul is restless,
with your gentleness, for gentleness turns it back.
For gentleness can dissuade it.