إِذاwhen اِعتَذَرَapologizes الجانيthe wrongdoer إِليَّto me عَذَرتُهُI pardon him
إِذا اِعتَذَرَ الجاني إِليَّ عَذَرتُهُ
وَلاand not سِيَّماthe like (لا سيما means especially) إِنif لَمnot يَكُنhe was قَدalready تَعَمَّداacted deliberately
وَلا سِيَّما إِن لَم يَكُن قَد تَعَمَّدا
If the offender apologizes to me, I forgive him—
When the wrongdoer apologizes to me, I pardon him,
and especially if he did not act deliberately.
especially if he had not acted deliberately.
فَمَنfor whoever عاتَبَreproaches الجُهّالَthe ignorant أَتعَبَwearies نَفسَهُhimself
فَمَن عاتَبَ الجُهّالَ أَتعَبَ نَفسَهُ
وَمَنand whoever لامَblames مَنone who لاnot يَعرِفُunderstands اللَومَblame أَفسَداdoes harm
وَمَن لامَ مَن لا يَعرِفُ اللَومَ أَفسَدا
For whoever reproaches fools only exhausts himself,
For whoever reproaches the ignorant wearies himself,
and whoever blames one who does not understand reproach only makes matters worse.
and whoever blames one who does not understand blame does harm.