أُتيحَتْwere destined لِداءٍfor a malady فيin الفؤادِthe heart عُضالِincurable
أُتيحَتْ لِداءٍ في الفؤادِ عُضالِ
رُباًhills بالظِّباءِwith gazelles العاطِلاتِunadorned حَوالِadorned
رُباً بالظِّباءِ العاطِلاتِ حَوالِ
For an incurable malady in the heart were destined
An ailment was allowed in my heart, against which
hills adorned with unadorned gazelles.
I was powerless, with gazing at the unemployed women.
تُذيلُsquander دُموعَthe tears of العَيْنِthe eye وهْيَand they are مَصونَةٌkept safe
تُذيلُ دُموعَ العَيْنِ وهْيَ مَصونَةٌ
وأُرْخِصُهاand I cheapen them فيin الحُبِّlove وهْيَand they are غَوالِprecious
وأُرْخِصُها في الحُبِّ وهْيَ غَوالِ
They squander the eye's tears, though held in safekeeping,
She flows down my tears while she is protected,
and I cheapen them in love, though they are precious.
And I allow her the love while she is unruly.
سواجِمُstreaming tears تَكْفيهاsuffice them for الحَياrain وانْهمالَهُand its downpour
سواجِمُ تَكْفيها الحَيا وانْهمالَهُ
إذاwhen انْحَلَّare unloosed فيin وُطْفِthick, dark masses of الغَمامِclouds عَزاليrain-spouts
إذا انْحَلَّ في وُطْفِ الغَمامِ عَزالي
Streaming tears that serve them instead of rain and its downpour,
Vast oceans that take away life and its concerns
when rain-spouts are unloosed in thick, dark clouds.
When the clouds unload the isolated rain.
ولوْلاكِand were it not for you ياO ذاتَwearer of الوِشاحَيْنِthe two sashes لمْnot تَكُنْwould be
ولوْلاكِ يا ذاتَ الوِشاحَيْنِ لمْ تَكُنْ
موَشَّحةًgirdled منْfrom أدْمُعيmy tears بِلآليwith pearls
موَشَّحةً منْ أدْمُعي بِلآلي
Were it not for you, O wearer of two sashes, they would not be
Were it not for you, O you of the two veils,
girdled with pearls from my tears.
My tears would not have adorned you.
وأغْضَيْتُand I lowered عَيْنيmy eye عنْfrom مَهاهاtheir oryxes فلَمْso I did not أُبَلْcare
وأغْضَيْتُ عَيْني عنْ مَهاها فلَمْ أُبَلْ
لَدَيْهاthere among them بعَيْنيfor the two eyes of جُؤذَرٍan oryx calf وغَزالِand a gazelle
لَدَيْها بعَيْني جُؤذَرٍ وغَزالِ
I lowered my gaze from their oryxes, and cared nothing
And I lowered my eyes from their desires, so I did not
there for the eyes of an oryx calf or a gazelle.
Appear to them as annoying and frolicking.
ولكنَّنيbut I أرضَيaccept الغِوايَةَwaywardness فيin الهَوىpassion
ولكنَّني أرضَي الغِوايَةَ في الهَوى
وأحْمِلُand I bear فيهin it ماwhat جَناهُwrought it ضَلاليmy straying
وأحْمِلُ فيه ما جَناهُ ضَلالي
Yet I accept waywardness in passion,
But I appeased waywardness in love,
and bear in it what my straying has wrought.
And I carry in it what my misguidance reaped.
وَقَتْكِmay they shield you الرّدىdeath بيضٌfair women حِسانٌlovely وُجوهُهاtheir faces
وَقَتْكِ الرّدى بيضٌ حِسانٌ وُجوهُها
ومُثْرِيَةٌand rich منْin نَضْرَةٍradiance وجَمالِand beauty
ومُثْرِيَةٌ منْ نَضْرَةٍ وجَمالِ
May fair women shield you from death, their faces lovely
The cheeks of your face are white, beautiful,
and rich in radiance and beauty.
Flourishing with freshness and beauty.
طَلَعْنَthey rose بُدوراًas full moons فيin دُجىًdarkness منof ذَوائِبٍtresses
طَلَعْنَ بُدوراً في دُجىً من ذَوائِبٍ
ومِسْنَand they swayed غُصوناًas boughs فيon مُتونِridges of رِمالِdunes
ومِسْنَ غُصوناً في مُتونِ رِمالِ
They rose as full moons amid the darkness of tresses,
They appeared as full moons in dark tresses,
and swayed as boughs upon the ridges of dunes.
And touched branches in the interior of the sands.
أرىI see نَظَراتِthe glances of الصَّبِّthe lovesick man يَعْثُرْنَstumble دونَهاshort of them
أرى نَظَراتِ الصَّبِّ يَعْثُرْنَ دونَها
بأعْرافِover the manes of جُرْدٍsleek steeds أوor رؤوسِthe tips of عَوالِlofty spears
بأعْرافِ جُرْدٍ أو رؤوسِ عَوالِ
I see the lovesick man's glances stumble short of them
I see the gazes of the young men stumbling over them
over the manes of sleek steeds or the tips of lofty spears.
At the edges of the short palm trees or mountain peaks.
عَرَضْنَthey offered عليَّto me الوَصْلَunion والقَلبُand the heart كلُّهُall of it
عَرَضْنَ عليَّ الوَصْلَ والقَلبُ كلُّهُ
لدَيْكِwith you فأنّىso how يَبتغينَcan they seek وِصاليunion with me
لدَيْكِ فأنّى يَبتغينَ وِصالي
They offered me union, while my heart, all of it,
They offered me union but my heart as a whole
is with you—how, then, can they seek union with me?
Is yours, so how can I seek my union?
وهُنَّand they are مِلاحٌlovely غيرَexcept أنّthat نَواظِراًeyes
وهُنَّ مِلاحٌ غيرَ أنّ نَواظِراً
تُديرينَهاyou turn them زلّتْslipped بهِنَّbecause of them نِعاليmy sandals
تُديرينَها زلّتْ بهِنَّ نِعالي
They are lovely; yet the eyes
And they are beautiful, except you turn
you turn have made my sandals slip.
Your glances, so my slippers slipped because of them.
ولولاكِand were it not for you ماnot بِعْتُI would have traded العِراقَIraq وأهْلَهُand its people
ولولاكِ ما بِعْتُ العِراقَ وأهْلَهُ
بِواديfor the valley of الحِمىal-Hima, the sanctuary والمَنْدَليَّand Mandali aloeswood بِضالِfor wild lote-trees
بِوادي الحِمى والمَنْدَليَّ بِضالِ
Were it not for you, I would not have traded Iraq and its people
Were it not for you, I would not have sold Iraq and its people
for the valley of al-Hima, and Mandali aloeswood for wild lote-trees.
With the valley of protection and al-Mandali in neglect.
فَماso what لِنِساءِails the women of الحَيِّthe tribe يُضْمِرْنَthey conceal غَيْرَةًjealousy
فَما لِنِساءِ الحَيِّ يُضْمِرْنَ غَيْرَةً
سَبَتْهاmay they take them captive العَواليlofty spears ماwhat لَهُنَّfor them وماand what ليfor me
سَبَتْها العَوالي ما لَهُنَّ وما لي
What ails the women of the tribe, concealing jealousy?
So what is with the jealous women of the tribe
May lofty spears take them captive! What are they to me, or I to them?
Whose remoteness blamed me? What is their business and mine?
ولوand if خالَفَتْنيopposed me فيin مُتابعةِfollowing الهَوىpassion
ولو خالَفَتْني في مُتابعةِ الهَوى
يَمينيmy right hand ماnot واصَلْتُهاI would join it بِشماليto my left hand
يَميني ما واصَلْتُها بِشمالي
And if, in following passion, I were opposed
And if my right hand contradicted me in pursuing love
by my right hand, I would not join it to my left.
I would not join it with my left hand.
وفيكِand in you صُدودٌaloofness منْfrom دَلالٍcoquetry أظنّهُI suppose it
وفيكِ صُدودٌ منْ دَلالٍ أظنّهُ
عليaccording to ماwhat حَكىreported الواشيthe talebearer صُدودَaloofness from مَلالِweariness
علي ما حَكى الواشي صُدودَ مَلالِ
Your aloofness comes from coquetry; I imagine it,
And in you are repellents of coquetry, which I think
from what the talebearer reported, to be aloofness born of weariness.
Are to me as the informant described the repellents of tedium.
قَنِعْتُI was content بطَيْفٍwith an apparition منْfrom خَيالِكِyour phantom طارِقٍvisiting by night
قَنِعْتُ بطَيْفٍ منْ خَيالِكِ طارِقٍ
وأيُّand what خَيالٍphantom يَهْتَديcan find its way لخَيالِto a phantom
وأيُّ خَيالٍ يَهْتَدي لخَيالِ
I was content with a night-visit from your phantom;
I sufficed with an imagination of you visiting me,
but what phantom can find its way to a phantom?
And which imagination finds its way to another imagination?
فلاso do not تُنْكِريdeny سَيْريmy journey إلَيْكِto you علىdespite الوَجىfootsoreness
فلا تُنْكِري سَيْري إلَيْكِ على الوَجى
رَكائِبَriding camels لاnot يُنْعَلْنَare shod غيرَwith anything but ظِلالِshadows
رَكائِبَ لا يُنْعَلْنَ غيرَ ظِلالِ
So do not deny my journey to you despite footsoreness,
So do not deny my walking to you over the sands
on riding camels shod with nothing but shadows;
On she-camels that are not shod except with shadows.
إذاwhen زُجِرَتْis urged on منهُنَّamong them وَجْناءُa broad-cheeked she-camel خِلْتَهاyou would think her
إذا زُجِرَتْ منهُنَّ وَجْناءُ خِلْتَها
وقدand already مسّهاhas touched her الإعياءُexhaustion ذاتَone wearing عِقالِa hobble
وقد مسّها الإعياءُ ذاتَ عِقالِ
when a broad-cheeked she-camel among them is urged on, you would think her,
When scolded, the slight sounds of their anklets,
once exhaustion has touched her, to be hobbled.
And fatigue has touched them having reins.
وخَوْضيand my plunging through إلَيْكِtoward you اللّيلَthe night أرْكَبُI ride هَوْلَهُits terror
وخَوْضي إلَيْكِ اللّيلَ أرْكَبُ هَوْلَهُ
وإنْand though بَعُدَis long المَسْرىthe night-journey فلَسْتُso I do not أباليcare
وإنْ بَعُدَ المَسْرى فلَسْتُ أبالي
Nor my plunging through the night toward you, riding its terror;
And my adventuring to you at night, I ride its dangers,
and though the night-journey is long, I do not care.
And even if the journey is far, I do not care.
ولاand do not تَقْبَليaccept قَولَthe words of العَذولِthe reproacher فتَنْدَميand then regret it
ولا تَقْبَلي قَولَ العَذولِ فتَنْدَمي
إذاwhen قَطَعَتْsever عنكِfrom you الوُشاةُthe talebearers حِباليmy cords
إذا قَطَعَتْ عنكِ الوُشاةُ حِبالي
Nor accept the reproacher's words, lest you regret it
And do not accept the words of the blamer, so you regret
when talebearers sever the cords that bind me to you.
When the slanderers cut you off from my ropes.
سَليask ابْنَيْthe two sons of نِزارٍNizar عنْabout جُدوديmy forefathers بَعْدَماafter
سَلي ابْنَيْ نِزارٍ عنْ جُدودي بَعْدَما
سمِعْتِyou have heard ببأْسيof my valor إذْwhen هزَزْتُI brandished نِصاليmy blades
سمِعْتِ ببأْسي إذْ هزَزْتُ نِصالي
Ask Nizar's two sons about my forefathers, after
Ask the son of Nizar about my ancestors, after
you have heard of my valor when I brandished my blades.
You heard of my heroism when I brandished my swords.
هلِwhether اشتَمَلتْcontained فيهِمْamong them صَحيفةُa record of ناسِبٍa genealogist
هلِ اشتَمَلتْ فيهِمْ صَحيفةُ ناسِبٍ
علىupon مِثْلِthe like of عمّيmy paternal uncle ياO أُمَيْمَUmaym وخاليand my maternal uncle
على مِثْلِ عمّي يا أُمَيْمَ وخالي
Has any genealogist's record among them contained
Did the book of lineage contain the like of my paternal uncle
the like of my paternal uncle, O Umaym, and my maternal uncle?
O Umaim and my maternal uncle?
فهَلْis it, then مَلْثَمُthe kissing-place of اللّبّاتِthroat hollows رُمْحيmy spear إذاwhen دَعاcalled
فهَلْ مَلْثَمُ اللّبّاتِ رُمْحي إذا دَعا
مَصاليتُstalwart warriors يَغْشَوْنَenter المِصاعَcombat نَزالِcome down and fight
مَصاليتُ يَغْشَوْنَ المِصاعَ نَزالِ
Is my spear, then, the kissing-place of throats, when
So is the warrior with the soft lips my spear when it calls
stalwarts plunging into combat cry, 'Come down and fight!'
My swordsmen overrun the battlefields with descent?
فلاso do not تُلْزِمينيcharge me with ذَنْبَthe fault of دَهْرٍan age يَسومُنيimposes on me
فلا تُلْزِميني ذَنْبَ دَهْرٍ يَسومُني
علىamid غِلَظِthe harshness of الأيّامِthe days رِقّةmeagerness of حالِcircumstance
على غِلَظِ الأيّامِ رِقّة حالِ
So do not charge me with the fault of an age that imposes on me,
So do not oblige me with the guilt of a time that accuses me
amid the harshness of days, scant means.
With the coarseness of days, the tenderness of my state.
وتَمْشيand walks الهُوَيْنىsoftly بَيْنَbetween جَنْبَيَّmy two sides هِمّةٌan ambition
وتَمْشي الهُوَيْنى بَيْنَ جَنْبَيَّ هِمّةٌ
تَذُمُّcondemns زَماناًan age ضاقَhas narrowed فيهِin it مَجاليmy scope
تَذُمُّ زَماناً ضاقَ فيهِ مَجالي
And ambition walks softly between my ribs,
And the passion walks between my lofty determination
condemning an age in which my scope has narrowed.
That blames a time in which my scope is narrowed.
وعندَand with بَنيهِits sons حينَwhen تُخْشىare feared بَناتُهُits daughters
وعندَ بَنيهِ حينَ تُخْشى بَناتُهُ
قُلوبُthe hearts of نِساءٍwomen فيin جُسومِthe bodies of رِجالِmen
قُلوبُ نِساءٍ في جُسومِ رِجالِ
And its sons, when its daughters are feared, have
And when his daughters are feared among his sons
the hearts of women in the bodies of men.
The hearts of women in the bodies of men.
ولاand do not تُنْكِريdeny ماwhat أشْتَكيI complain منْof خَصاصَةٍpoverty
ولا تُنْكِري ما أشْتَكي منْ خَصاصَةٍ
عَرَفْتُI have known بهاthrough it البأساءَhardship منذُfor لَيالِnights
عَرَفْتُ بها البأساءَ منذُ لَيالِ
Nor deny the poverty I complain of,
And do not deny the lack that I complain of
through which I have known hardship these past nights.
Which I knew the calamities from past nights.
فبالتّلَعاتِfor on the hill-slopes الحُوِّdark-green منْof أرْضِthe land of كُوفَنٍKufan
فبالتّلَعاتِ الحُوِّ منْ أرْضِ كُوفَنٍ
مَبارِكُcamel-resting grounds لاnot تُدْميmake bleed صُدورَthe breasts of جِماليmy camels
مَبارِكُ لا تُدْمي صُدورَ جِمالي
For on the dark-green hill-slopes of the land of Kufan
So the fine sand dunes of the Kufan land,
are resting-grounds that do not bloody my camels' breasts.
Blessed, do not destroy the chests of my camels.
يَحوطُguards حِماهاtheir sanctuary غِلْمَةٌyoung men أُمويّةٌUmayyad
يَحوطُ حِماها غِلْمَةٌ أُمويّةٌ
بخَطّيَّةٍwith Khatti spears مُلْسِsmooth المُتونِthe shafts طِوالِlong
بخَطّيَّةٍ مُلْسِ المُتونِ طِوالِ
Their sanctuary is guarded by Umayyad youths
Its protectors are a young Umayyad tribe
with tall Khatti spears, smooth of shaft,
With broadly spread excellent casts.
وكُلِّand every رَميضِhoned الشّفْرَتَيْنِon both cutting edges مُهَنّدٍIndian-forged blade
وكُلِّ رَميضِ الشّفْرَتَيْنِ مُهَنّدٍ
كأنّas though بغَرْبَيْهِalong its two edges مَدَبَّa crawling-track of نِمالِants
كأنّ بغَرْبَيْهِ مَدَبَّ نِمالِ
and with every Indian blade honed on both edges,
And every bending of the two blades is well-groomed
as though along its two cutting edges lay a trail of ants.
As if needles were mounted on its curves.
ضَرَبْنَthey laid down بألْحِيهِنَّwith their jaws والريحُand the wind قَرّةٌbitterly cold
ضَرَبْنَ بألْحِيهِنَّ والريحُ قَرّةٌ
علىon قُلَّتَيْthe two peaks of أرْوَنْدَArwand غِبَّafter كَلالِweariness
على قُلَّتَيْ أرْوَنْدَ غِبَّ كَلالِ
They laid their jaws down, while the wind was bitterly cold,
They hit with their arrows as the wind is still
on Arwand's two peaks, after weariness.
On the humps of the ostrich of abundant thinness.
فماso did not رَعَتِhonor القُرْبىkinship قُرَيْشٌQuraysh ولاnor اتّقَتْfear
فما رَعَتِ القُرْبى قُرَيْشٌ ولا اتّقَتْ
عِتابيmy rebuke ولمْand did not يَكْسِفْdarken لذلكbecause of that باليmy spirit
عِتابي ولمْ يَكْسِفْ لذلك بالي
Quraysh did not honor kinship, nor did they fear
So the kinsfolk of Quraysh did not watch over the rights of kinship or fear
my rebuke; yet that did not darken my spirit.
My blame, nor was my mind upset by that.
وأكْرَمَand honored مَثْواهاtheir lodging وأمْجَدَهاand lavished on them القِرَىhospitality
وأكْرَمَ مَثْواها وأمْجَدَها القِرَى
بَنوthe sons of خَلَفٍKhalaf حتىuntil حَطَطْتُI set down رِحاليmy saddles
بَنو خَلَفٍ حتى حَطَطْتُ رِحالي
Their lodging was honored and hospitality lavished on them
And the most generous dwelling place honored it among settlements
by the sons of Khalaf, until I set down my saddles.
Were the clan of Khalaf until I descended my departures.
وفازواand they won بحَمْديwith my praise إذْwhen ظَفِرْتُI won بودِّهمْwith their affection
وفازوا بحَمْدي إذْ ظَفِرْتُ بودِّهمْ
فلمْso I did not أتعرَّضْseek بعْدَهُafter it لنَوالِfor bounty
فلمْ أتعرَّضْ بعْدَهُ لنَوالِ
They won my praise when I won their affection,
And they succeeded in winning my praise when I attained their love
so after that I sought no bounty.
So I did not after it incline towards anyone's gift.
مَغاويرُbold warriors منْamong أبناءِthe sons of بَهْرامَBahram ذادَةٌdefenders
مَغاويرُ منْ أبناءِ بَهْرامَ ذادَةٌ
بهِمْthrough them تُلْقَحُis made fertile الهَيْجاءُwar بعدَafter حِيالِbarrenness
بهِمْ تُلْقَحُ الهَيْجاءُ بعدَ حِيالِ
Bold warriors among the sons of Bahram, defenders,
They are horsemen from the sons of Bahram Zadah
through whom war conceives after barrenness.
With whom wars are kindled after term.
يهَشّونَthey brighten للعافيfor the supplicant كأنّas though وُوجوهَهُمْand their faces
يهَشّونَ للعافي كأنّ وُوجوهَهُمْ
صُدورُthe broad faces of سُيوفٍswords حُودِثَتْwere renewed بصِقالِwith polishing
صُدورُ سُيوفٍ حُودِثَتْ بصِقالِ
They brighten for the supplicant, and their faces seem
They terrify towards escape as if their faces
like the broad faces of swords polished afresh.
Were the chests of swords forged with polishing.
فصاحَبْتُso I befriended منهمْamong them كلَّevery قَرْمٍnoble chief حَوىattained العُلاhigh honor
فصاحَبْتُ منهمْ كلَّ قَرْمٍ حَوى العُلا
بمَلثومَةٍwith a kissed hand فيin الجودِgenerosity ذاتِpossessing سِجالِbucketfuls
بمَلثومَةٍ في الجودِ ذاتِ سِجالِ
So I befriended among them every noble chief who attained high honor
So I accompanied every brave one who harbored glory
with a kissed hand pouring out generosity by the bucketful,
With a soft-lipped one having disputing generosity.
وبذَّand surpassed الحَياthe rain إذْwhen جادَhe gave والليثَand the lion إذwhen سَطاhe pounced
وبذَّ الحَيا إذْ جادَ والليثَ إذ سَطا
علىupon القِرْنِthe adversary فيin أُكْرومَةٍnoble generosity وصِيالِand assault
على القِرْنِ في أُكْرومَةٍ وصِيالِ
and outdid the rain when he gave, and the lion when he pounced
He was guided in life when he gave generously and the lion when it pounced
upon his adversary, in generosity and assault.
On the spear in an attack and assault.
يَرىhe sees بسِنانِin the spearhead of الزاعبيّةِthe Za'ibi lance كَوْكَباًa star
يَرى بسِنانِ الزاعبيّةِ كَوْكَباً
فيَطْعَنُso he thrusts حتىuntil ينثنيit bends كهِلالِlike a crescent
فيَطْعَنُ حتى ينثني كهِلالِ
He sees a star in the point of the Za'ibi lance,
He sees with the swords of Al-Za'abiya like a planet
and thrusts until it bends like a crescent.
So he thrusts until he bends like a crescent.
ولاand does not يتخطّىmiss مَقْتلاًa vital spot فكأنّهso it is as though he
ولا يتخطّى مَقْتلاً فكأنّه
لدىwhen الطّعنِthrusting يعشوhe gropes نَحوَهُtoward it بذُبالِwith lamp-wicks
لدى الطّعنِ يعشو نَحوَهُ بذُبالِ
He never misses a vital spot, as though
And he does not transcend a killing, as if he
when thrusting, he groped toward it by the light of wicks.
When thrusting lives towards it with sacrificing.
رَعىhe honored حُرُماتِthe sacred claims of المَجْدِglory فيَّin me تكرُّماًout of nobility
رَعى حُرُماتِ المَجْدِ فيَّ تكرُّماً
وقدand already شدّhad tightened عَزميmy resolve للمَسيرِfor departure قِباليmy sandal-straps
وقد شدّ عَزمي للمَسيرِ قِبالي
He nobly honored glory's sacred claims in me,
He watched over the sanctities of glory in honoring me
when my resolve had tightened my sandal-straps for departure.
When my determination to travel became firm.
وأيقَنَand he knew certainly أنيthat I لاnot ألوذُseek refuge بباخِلٍwith a miser
وأيقَنَ أني لا ألوذُ بباخِلٍ
يُضَيِّعُsquanders عِرْضاًhonor فيin صِيانَةِsafeguarding مالِwealth
يُضَيِّعُ عِرْضاً في صِيانَةِ مالِ
And he knew for certain that I would not seek refuge with a miser
And he was certain that I do not seek refuge in a miser
who squanders honor to safeguard wealth.
Who wastes honor in guarding money.
وكُنتُand I had been خَفيفَlight of المَنكِبَيْنِboth shoulders فأُكْرِهاso both were compelled
وكُنتُ خَفيفَ المَنكِبَيْنِ فأُكْرِها
علىto bear مِنَنِfavors طُوِّقْتُهُنَّI was collared with them ثِقالِheavy
على مِنَنِ طُوِّقْتُهُنَّ ثِقالِ
And my shoulders had been light, but both were compelled
And I was light shoulder so I forced them
to bear heavy favors with which I was collared.
To favors I collared with burdens.
وحُزْتُand I gained ندىًbounty ماnot شانَهُmarred it بمِطالِهِby delaying it
وحُزْتُ ندىً ما شانَهُ بمِطالِهِ
وحازَand he gained ثَناءًpraise لمْdid not يَشِنْهُmar it مِطاليmy delay
وحازَ ثَناءً لمْ يَشِنْهُ مِطالي
And I gained bounty he did not mar by delaying it,
And I gained freshness that exemplary status was not its concern
and he gained praise my delay did not mar.
And gained praise that my exemplary status did not taint.
فسُقْتُso I conveyed إليهِto him الشُّكْرَthanks بعدَafter سؤالِهِhis request
فسُقْتُ إليهِ الشُّكْرَ بعدَ سؤالِهِ
وساقَand he conveyed إليَّto me العُرْفَkindness قَبلَbefore سؤاليmy request
وساقَ إليَّ العُرْفَ قَبلَ سؤالي
So I brought him thanks after his request,
So I gave thanks to him after his request
and he brought me kindness before my request.
And he gave me the customary gift before my request.